You put Ann Landers and Dear Abby right out of business. They are lucky you weren’t around yet! You have the biggest heart, and tell it like it is. I love that about you, Abbey! We all need you in our corner! Xo😘💞
You can comment here or DM me! And you’ll be anonymous. And if you don’t even want me to know it’s you, have a friend do it! Either way, if you want to stay anonymous like this one and a lot of others have, I will keep you private
I would have asked SiS about his expectations for women that he wants to be with. Does he seek a certain height, BMI or breast size? Does he have a threshold for facial prettiness? The goose is at least as insecure as the gander, both driven by the marketing of the beauty and fashion industry.
I love your Golden Rule guidelines for grooming and appearance. If both partners present themselves as if they care enough about their own health and appearance and about the comfort of their partner, more fun will be had and less anxious intercourse of all kinds will occur.
I learned a lot from that. Mostly the amount of work it takes to get “ripped” and then maintain it. It seems like some have to sacrifice emotional closeness to do it.
That’s been my experience, and I certainly don’t mean to pass judgment on that lifestyle. And having been a part of that culture for years, I can speak from it directly. But with this particular question, I felt it needed to be clearly addressed!
Yaaaaas! People who look too perfect on the outside are usually red flags for people with emotional intelligence. Not all fit people, of course, but all of this is so valid. I've gained about 10kg in more recent years, and nothing makes me happier than knowing my partner digs it. He loved me when I was think and he almost seems even more attracted to me with a lil extra cushion for the pushin'. And the more he validates my body and expresses joy in it, the more I get comfortable with it. That respect and adoration then goes both ways as he's starting to gain some weight too for the same reasons.
Bear!! I love this!! I’ve been there too, and knowing that you’re still accepted and desired no matter the extra cushion is the best feeling. I really loved this question so much and was really honored to tackle it. Thank you, sweetness xo
Abbey! This is so fucking good. I actually teared up and I’m not even pms-ing. What a great start to what is going to be an amazing series. I love this. I love you. ❤️
Ok, wasn't ready for this but I don't ignore coincidences. Was listening to White Horses by Chris Staplenton. There's something there. I'm not smart enough to piece it all together.
You put Ann Landers and Dear Abby right out of business. They are lucky you weren’t around yet! You have the biggest heart, and tell it like it is. I love that about you, Abbey! We all need you in our corner! Xo😘💞
Awww Joanie!! Haha you’re so sweet. Thank you so much!!!
How can a good guy write to Abbey to get questions answered
You can comment here or DM me! And you’ll be anonymous. And if you don’t even want me to know it’s you, have a friend do it! Either way, if you want to stay anonymous like this one and a lot of others have, I will keep you private
She will tell me tho 😏 jk
I'm going to write to her about you now
Oh fuck me.
If you insist 😘
Get in line, pal.
What a kind and useful response.
I would have asked SiS about his expectations for women that he wants to be with. Does he seek a certain height, BMI or breast size? Does he have a threshold for facial prettiness? The goose is at least as insecure as the gander, both driven by the marketing of the beauty and fashion industry.
I love your Golden Rule guidelines for grooming and appearance. If both partners present themselves as if they care enough about their own health and appearance and about the comfort of their partner, more fun will be had and less anxious intercourse of all kinds will occur.
I have a strong, doughy man at home and I absolutely agree with every word of this 🥰
Yessss Jessie!!! I love this so much. It’s not said enough. And these men need to know. Thank you 💋
Smooth like Tennessee whiskey not slick like a greased dolphin.
That’s it! Haha yep. Exactly, Chad.
Abbbbey!!! I love this piece and idea so much.
Awww Andrea thank you!! I really appreciate that ❤️❤️❤️
Dear Abbey,
Please teach me everything you know
Done.
I'm literally listening to your voice now 😂
Ha!!! Amazing!!
I learned a lot from that. Mostly the amount of work it takes to get “ripped” and then maintain it. It seems like some have to sacrifice emotional closeness to do it.
That’s been my experience, and I certainly don’t mean to pass judgment on that lifestyle. And having been a part of that culture for years, I can speak from it directly. But with this particular question, I felt it needed to be clearly addressed!
Thank you so much for reading, J!!❤️
I certainly sensed no judgement. In some ways it gives me more of an appreciation for it.
Thank you. I really appreciate that so much
Yaaaaas! People who look too perfect on the outside are usually red flags for people with emotional intelligence. Not all fit people, of course, but all of this is so valid. I've gained about 10kg in more recent years, and nothing makes me happier than knowing my partner digs it. He loved me when I was think and he almost seems even more attracted to me with a lil extra cushion for the pushin'. And the more he validates my body and expresses joy in it, the more I get comfortable with it. That respect and adoration then goes both ways as he's starting to gain some weight too for the same reasons.
Abbey be wise. Listen to Abbey 💞🔥
Bear!! I love this!! I’ve been there too, and knowing that you’re still accepted and desired no matter the extra cushion is the best feeling. I really loved this question so much and was really honored to tackle it. Thank you, sweetness xo
Thankfully being a bad man is simply easier in most respects.
I think I forgot how to spell conniption.
I had to look it up. It’s a tricky one
Faaaaabulous response!!
Aww thank you Ginger!! Love you
Love youuu ❤️
Also “from tongue to testicle” is the best line I’ve read ever.
Bahahaha kind of love that too yep
Your a beautiful woman, you have to be really smart, what do you think would help men understand how to pamper women
Also thank you for the kind compliments
This is great, Steve! Thank you for this. I’m saving it!!
Abbey! This is so fucking good. I actually teared up and I’m not even pms-ing. What a great start to what is going to be an amazing series. I love this. I love you. ❤️
Candy!!! Ok now I’m crying. Thank you so much!! I love you!!!!
♥️♥️♥️
Ok, wasn't ready for this but I don't ignore coincidences. Was listening to White Horses by Chris Staplenton. There's something there. I'm not smart enough to piece it all together.
Oh damn, Chad! Something there for sure! It'll surface when it's ready to ;-)
something about wanting a cowboy AND on a white horse.
Right! Yep. Absolutely
SS, this gave me hope for my own ‘doughy edges.’ I’ll take being the novel over the postcard any day.✨
This is good info, if not a bit long.
Came here to say this:
“What women really want, in the physical sense, is a man who looks like he takes care of himself.”
This is the long as short of it. If you take care and pride in your personal appearance and health it shows and women find that attractive.
Also treating us well and always with respect.
If you can nail those two things, you’re golden.
Big fan of words! This was a tender subject and a tenderly worded question that needed the same amount of attention and tenderness attached to it.
Thanks so much for reading!!
True. I could tell you really poured a lot of care and thought into your reply. ✌️